Self-Love & Self-Compassion Test (SCS)
The Self-Love and Self-Compassion Test (Self-Compassion Scale) is a scientifically validated questionnaire by Dr. Kristin Neff that measures 6 components of your relationship with yourself: self-kindness, self-judgment, common humanity, isolation, mindfulness, and over-identification. Take this free self-love test online and discover your level of self-compassion.
What you'll learn
Your level of self-kindness — how warm and understanding you are toward yourself during difficult times
Degree of self-judgment — how harshly you criticize yourself for mistakes
Common humanity awareness — whether you see your difficulties as part of shared human experience
Isolation level — whether you feel alone in your struggles
Mindfulness — your ability to take a balanced approach to negative emotions
Over-identification — how much you get consumed by negative experiences
Key facts
History & development
Kristin Neff publishes the original SCS in the journal Self and Identity
Connection between self-compassion and positive psychological functioning confirmed
Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) program created for developing self-compassion
Short form SCS-SF with 12 items published
Meta-analysis of 79 studies confirms link between self-compassion and mental health
SCS translated into 40+ languages, used in 4,000+ peer-reviewed studies
About the methodology
The Self-Love Test is based on the Self-Compassion Scale (SCS), developed by Dr. Kristin Neff at the University of Texas at Austin. The methodology is rooted in Buddhist psychology and the concept of self-compassion as a three-component construct: self-kindness (vs.
self-judgment), common humanity (vs. isolation), and mindfulness (vs. over-identification). The test has undergone rigorous psychometric validation: internal consistency α = 0.92, test-retest reliability r = 0.93. The SCS has been translated into 40+ languages and used in over 4,000 peer-reviewed studies.
Meta-analyses show strong negative correlations of self-compassion with depression (r = −0.52), anxiety (r = −0.51), and stress (r = −0.54), and positive correlations with well-being (r = 0.47) and resilience (r = 0.42).
Scientific references
Frequently asked questions
What is the Self-Love Test?
The Self-Love Test (SCS) is a scientifically validated psychological questionnaire developed by Kristin Neff that measures self-compassion across 6 scales: self-kindness, self-judgment, common humanity, isolation, mindfulness, and over-identification.
How accurate is this test?
The SCS has high reliability (α = 0.92) and test-retest stability (r = 0.93). It is one of the most validated instruments in positive psychology, used in over 4,000 scientific studies.
Can self-love be learned?
Yes, numerous studies show that self-compassion can be developed through mindfulness practices, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), and specialized programs like the Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC) program by Kristin Neff and Christopher Germer.
What's the difference between self-love and selfishness?
Self-compassion is not selfishness. Research shows that people with high self-compassion are more empathetic, forgiving, and maintain healthier relationships with others.
How often should I take this test?
It's recommended to take the test every 3-6 months to track changes in self-compassion levels, especially if you're practicing self-compassion development techniques.
Instructions
Please read each statement carefully before answering. Indicate how often you behave in the stated manner, using the scale from 'Almost never' to 'Almost always'.
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