Love, Habit, or Dependence: What Are You Really Feeling?
Confused about your feelings and unsure of what keeps you close to your partner? This questionnaire will help set things straight. The tool is based on the scientific IAS (Infatuation and Attachment Scale) method, which distinguishes deep infatuation from mere habit and emotional dependence. Answer honestly to analyze your emotions and get a detailed breakdown of your results with a clear visual pie chart.
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What you'll learn
Your infatuation level: how strong your passionate feelings are
Your attachment level: how deep your emotional bond is
Your romantic relationship type: new love, mature love, companionate love, or fading
Whether there are signs of emotional dependency in your relationship
Recommendations for developing healthy relationships
Key facts
History & development
John Bowlby published attachment theory
Hatfield & Walster: passionate and companionate love model
Sternberg: triangular theory of love (passion, intimacy, commitment)
Langeslag et al.: creation and validation of IAS scales
IAS used in neuroscience to study infatuation
About the methodology
The Infatuation and Attachment Scales (IAS) is a psychometric instrument that has undergone complete scientific validation. The study was conducted on a sample of 895 participants and confirmed the two-factor structure: infatuation (9 items) and attachment (8 items).
The internal consistency of both scales is high (Cronbach's α > 0.85). The methodology successfully distinguishes between early and mature stages of romantic relationships. The infatuation scale measures intrusive thoughts, nervousness, sexual desire, and euphoria characteristic of early relationship stages.
The attachment scale assesses feelings of security, comfort, trust, and deep emotional connection. Clinical studies have shown IAS can be used to diagnose emotional dependency and unhealthy relationship patterns.
Scientific references
Frequently asked questions
What is the Love or Attachment test?
This is a scientific test based on the IAS (Infatuation and Attachment Scales) developed in 2013. It measures two components of romantic feelings: passionate infatuation and deep attachment, helping determine what drives your relationship.
What's the difference between infatuation and attachment?
Infatuation is characterized by intrusive thoughts, nervousness, sexual desire, and euphoria. Attachment manifests through feelings of security, comfort, trust, and deep emotional bonding. Both components are important for healthy relationships.
How long does the test take?
The test consists of 17 questions and takes about 5 minutes. You need to rate each statement on a 7-point scale from 'Strongly disagree' to 'Strongly agree'.
Can this test detect emotional dependency?
Yes, high infatuation combined with low attachment may indicate emotional dependency. The test helps identify unhealthy relationship patterns and recommends consulting a specialist if necessary.
How scientifically valid is this test?
The IAS has undergone complete scientific validation on a sample of 895 participants. Both scales show high internal consistency (Cronbach's α > 0.85). The test was published in the peer-reviewed journal Personal Relationships.
Instructions
Think about someone you have romantic feelings for (or had in the past). Read each statement and indicate how much you agree or disagree.
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