Relationships

Does He Love You? Discover 6 Key Signs

Answer 30 questions to find out how strongly your partner's behavior signals genuine love. The test evaluates 6 key dimensions: nonverbal communication, emotional openness, care, sacrifice, consistency, and physical closeness.

questions
30
Time
8 min
Method
PLT
Rating
4.5
Does He Love Me Test: Signs He's in Love with You

What you'll learn

How attentive and caring your partner is toward your needs

Level of physical closeness and nonverbal attachment signals

Degree of emotional openness and trust in the relationship

How much your partner prioritizes and invests in the relationship

Presence of long-term planning that includes you

Quality of positive interactions and constructive communication

Key facts

2024
Created
30
Questions
8 min
Time
6
Scales
PLT
Method
6 scientific theories
Theories

History & development

1958

Harlow publishes 'The Nature of Love'

1969

Bowlby presents attachment theory

1971

Mehrabian's nonverbal communication research

1986

Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love

1999

Gottman identifies relationship health predictors

About the methodology

The Perceived Love Test (PLT) evaluates perceived love across six scientifically grounded dimensions.

The methodology integrates attachment theory (Bowlby, Ainsworth), nonverbal communication research (Mehrabian), social exchange theory (Homans), Gottman's research on positive-to-negative interaction ratio (5:1), vulnerability research (Brené Brown), and cognitive bias theory (Heider).

This test is not a diagnostic tool: it measures subjective perception, not the other person's objective feelings.

Scientific references

Frequently asked questions

What is the Perceived Love Test (PLT)?

PLT measures your subjective assessment of another person's signs of love across 6 scientific scales: attention & care, physical closeness, emotional openness, prioritization, future orientation, and positive interactions.

Will this test tell me if he really loves me?

The test measures YOUR PERCEPTION of someone's behavior, not their actual feelings. High scores mean you notice many signs of love, but the only way to know for sure is an honest conversation.

What scientific basis does the test have?

The test is based on attachment theory (Bowlby), nonverbal communication research (Mehrabian), social exchange theory (Homans), healthy relationship research (Gottman), and vulnerability research (Brené Brown).

How long does the test take?

The test takes about 8 minutes. It contains 30 questions, each answered on a scale from 1 to 5.

Can the results be inaccurate?

Yes, results can be distorted by anxiety, past experiences, partner idealization, or differences in love expression styles. The test reflects your interpretation, not facts.

Who is this test designed for?

The test is suitable for anyone who wants to systematize their observations of a partner's behavior and understand what signs of attachment and love are present in their relationship.

Instructions

Think of a specific person whose feelings toward you you want to better understand. Answer based on YOUR OBSERVATIONS of their behavior. There are no right or wrong answers: the test measures your perception.

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